Sunday, August 26, 2012

A Teenager!

Well this says it all.  Ashley turned 13!  And she got to go school.  The first day of school and her birthday fell on the same day.  First time that's happened.
  1. Time sure has gone by fast.  I remember my sweet little baby girl with her serious look and funny sayings.  Now she's 13.
Honestly, Ashley is pretty responsible so it's not hard for me to believe she is 13.  What's hard to believe is that I am old enough to have a 13 year old daughter.  I'm young!

Anyway, the start of school is a very busy time so we decided just to celebrate as a family on Ashley's actual birthday and she would have a friends party later.

So after a good day of school we went out to eat.  Ashley's choice and of course her choice was steak.  That girl is my meat-eater!  We went to Outback and ordered steak with dessert!
 
 
She got lots of gift cards and cash for her birthday, which was great for buying school clothes.  Paige bought her one of those mini cupcake makers.  It's actually pretty cool and works well.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PRETTY GIRL!

Saturday, August 25, 2012

The Walking Fiasco

The beginning of the school year was pretty hectic this year.  It began with a major change: no more bus service for either of my girls. 

For some background, about 10-15 years ago our area was a rural farm community that basically exploded into suburbia during the housing bubble.  Subdivision after subdivision was built and a bunch of schools had to be built to accomodate all the kids in these new homes.  Many schools were built in underdeveloped and unincorprated areas without sidewalks or near rural highways, etc.  Hence many kids who may have lived within a mile of the school were bused because walking was deemed unsafe.  Since then the area has grown immensely and been developed, but the busing vs. walking issue was never revisted.  Basically, everyone just kept receiving bus service whether they still needed it or not.

Fast forward to present day and state and local budgets are tight.  The state isn't remimbursing school districts for transportation costs and our district realized they needed to try and save some money by reexamining the need for such extensive busing in our district.  The problem is that our school board always seems to act first and think later.  The district busing plan did need to be reevaluated and updated, the problem was that our board decided in May to just stop all bus service to anyone living within a mile of school.  They didn't look at the geography of each affected area, left no time for proper traffic studies, and didn't take anything else into consideration.  No examination on a case-by-case basis, just a blanket decision.  They basically just told the district transportation department to make it happen for the upcoming school year.

Now for our girls' situation, I wasn't opposed to walking.  We live about a 1/2 mile from the schools.  It is very close.  The concern many of the parents had was the safety and feasibility of walking.  Our elementary and junior high schools sit on the same property.  They are right next to each other on a big campus and share one large parking lot.  The campus is on unincorporated land with no sidewalks.  It is bordered by open fields, a US highway and a very busy 4 lane intersection.

The district's response to parent concerns was, "we will build a sidewalk, increase safety signage, and hire crossing guards; it will be safe for kids."  Parents said, "okay, but we really don't see how you are going to make it happen."

Well, all summer nothing happens.  Finally about two weeks before school starts they start building the sidewalk.  The sidewalk is completed a week before classes begin and due to the proximity of a water retention pond (another safety issue) there is barely any room to squeeze a narrow sidewalk in.  They ended up building a sidewalk that has no parkway as a buffer, the sidewalk runs right up to curb on the road.  Not good.

In the meantime our building principals are basically trying to figure out how to get everyone in and out every day.  Because there are no busses not only will there be lots of kids walking but there will also be lots of parents driving their kids.  There is only 20 minutes between release times at the elementary and junior high which means one is likely to run into the other and there is only one parking lot.  Two days before school starts they hold a parent meeting and pretty much everyone leaves thinking "this is not going to work."

Okay, so on the first day of school, I walk with Paige and her friends.  We get out of the subdivision and approach the intersection and surprise it's a disaster!  There are hundreds of people walking (each school has around 700 kids) so many that there isn't enough room for everyone to stand on the corners waiting for the lights to change.  The crossing guard is overwhelmed.  Once you make it across the intersection you then have to squeeze everyone onto the tiny sidewalk.  Of course everyone is terrified to have the kids walking so close to a road packed with cars that teachers from the school come out and form a human chain along the edge of the sidewalk and the road.
Pictures aren't great, but this chain of people is continuous clear up
 to the light and is just as crowded behind.

the dangerous sidewalk, with a teacher standing in the road

police directing traffic
 
The situation at the intersection is so dire that the district sends out two more crossing guards.  So now we are up to 3 crossing guards at the intersection.  The problem is that crossing guards cannot legally stop traffic, they can only work with the lights but there are so many people it's not working.  So a police officer has to come and direct traffic.  He basically stops cars to lets the hoardes of kids and parents cross through the intersection.  These relieves some of the walking congestion but it creates traffic problems.  The traffic starts backing up.  Add this to all the additional cars on the road of parents driving their kids to school and immediately the cars are backed up in all directions.  People can't get into the parking lot to drop off their kids.  And once they finally do get in, they can't get out because they have to stop for the walkers and the traffic from the intersection is so backed up there is no room to move anyway.

By the afternoon of the 1st day they have called in more police officers to help with traffic and have turned the traffic lights off and are directing traffic manually.  The school board president, the city Alderman, transportation officials, and traffic engineers are there.  All told there are 10 or more teachers outside directing walkers, 3 police officers and 3 crossing guards.  If you are driving your kid it is taking almost 2 hours to pick up your kids and get throught the parking lot.  I pretty much knew at this point the manpower needed to make this work was not feasible.  By the afternoon of the second day of school we got a message informing us that bus service would be resumed effective immediately. 

Yep, it was all pretty predictable and frustrating that so many district personnel and transportation "experts" couldn't have foreseen the issues.  So now we are back to normal busing.  It sure makes my life easier.  And as for the girls it was a few days of novelty.  Paige had fun walking with her friends.  On our last walk home, we all went to the pool for a swim day after school.  The kids were oblivious to all the drama but I guess that's a good thing.
Ashley and friends waiting to walk home

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

2012 First Day of School!

Another school year begins!  Man my kids are growing up fast.  This year marks the beginning of 8th and 3rd grades.  Both girls were looking forward to the big day, had their new outfits picked out and were ready to go.  We basically spent the week before at a variety of  back to school activities and open houses.  Ashley volunteered at two different student orientations so she was prepared and already had a her locker organized.  Paige also had the chance to stock up her desk with supplies a few days before the official "first day."


Paige and her friend Samantha
I'm happy to report that the first day was a success!  Everyone came home happy.  I'm not sure that I have quite caught my breath yet, it has just been so busy and hectic lately, but I'm sure a few more quite days home alone will help!

Back to School Dinner

Honestly, this year the beginning of school was so hectic.  I'm writing about it in retrospect and honestly, it is all a little of a blur to me.  It was all I could do to stay on top of everything.  I'm doing PTA at the elementary school this year so I was involved in lots of back-to-school stuff there on top of everything else.  I'm sharing this as an excuse for why our annual Back-to-School Family Dinner was a little lacking in presentation this year. 
 
Actually, the dinner itself was fine--Hawaiian Haystacks, a Paige favorite.   Decorations and presentation may have been wanting but the company was good.  We had a fun family dinner, followed by a good spiritual message and father's blessings.  I think we are ready for a new school year.  Here we come 3rd and 8th grades!
 
 
 

 

Saturday, August 18, 2012

Spectacular Summer Send-Off

On the very last weekend of summer vacation, our familly decided for one "last hurrah" before school started.

It also happened to correspond to "Take Your Kids to Work Day."  So Paige got up early and went to work with Dave, where she met an ice skating champion and had all the fun that a kid at an accounting office could have.

After putting in a full 1/2 day of work she and Dave hopped on a water taxi to meet Ashley and I at Navy Pier, where we had tickets to the Circque du Soleil Shanghai show.  All I can say is that we were very lucky to make it before the show started.  Ashley and I drove in from home and we were greeted by tons of people, full parking lots and a mad dash to find a random parking garage anywhere near the pier and then walk/run to the pier so we didn't miss the show.  Crazy! There were lots of extra people in the area watching the practice runs for the upcoming Air and Water show.  Who knew the practices would be so crowded?


Fortunately, we somehow made it and for only $35 parking (gotta love Chicago!)  Dave and Paige were saving our seats.
 
 
The show was great-thrilling, visually stunning, and very entertaining.  Full of mind-boggling acrobatics and crazy stunts it was a good time.  The stage is an open-air pavillion and the weather was great.  We also got to see and get buzzed by a few fighter jets flying overhead practicing for the Air and Water Show.  It was an all-around stimulating exeperience!

After the show, we hung around Navy Pier and toured a US Coast Guard Boat.  In honor of the of the 200th anniversary of the War of 1812 the US Coast Guard had a big exhibit set up on the pier.  It included war memoriabilia as well as renactments and characters in costume and of course the opportunity to tour some modern day Coast Guard boats--and it was all for free!

We got right in line to board the USCGC Biscayne Bay, an icebreaking harbor tug, whose regular homeport is in St. Ignace, Michigan. 



After our tour and ringing of the boat bell, we stopped for some history lessons on the naval aspect of the War of 1812 as well as some hands-on activities.


After all this we had worked up an appetite so we stopped for dinner at Harry Caray's.  This was our first time eating here and honestly, nothing to write home about.

 After a forgettable meal, we were sort of caught in limbo.  If we left to go home we would be stuck in horrible traffic, but what could we do while waiting out rush hour?  How convenient the walk back to our car happened to take us right by Ohio Street Beach.  It had been years since, we had been to a Lake Michigan beach, so even though we didn't have swimsuits, it was too irresistable not to stop. 
 
We had so much fun, that next year it will be one of the first things we do in the summer instead of the last!

Overall, it was pretty spectacular day--can't think of a better way to say goodbye to Summer.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Random Summer Fun

The last month of summer seemed to just fly by.  It was filled with lots of fun with friends and all the activities that make you love summer.

Paige and her friend Riley making strawberry freezer jam
 
 
There is endless entertainment with an iPad and some awesome apps.  Paige and friends have made many a movie, music video, silly photo art, etc.  "I'm watching you."
 
 Summer Birthday parties including candy, face painting and water games
 
 
Ashley and friends at our clubhouse pool party and outdoor movie night



The little girls playing at the splash pad and the park
 
 
Friends day at Centennial Beach in Naperville

 
 
Ice Cream Social at the pool

 
 
Playing at the park at Waubonsie Lake



 
 
Smores in the backyard!
 
Ashley and Dave and the "Dark Night" movie marathon
 
SERIOUSLY?  HAVE THESE KIDS HAD A GREAT SUMMER OR WHAT?!




Monday, August 13, 2012

Happy 16th Anniversary

Dave and I celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary on August 10th!  Best decision I ever made, just proof that 21 year olds can be wise. 

Dave, who always treats me like I the best thing ever, planned a wonderful celebration.  We had back-to-back days of fun.  On our actual anniversary he and I went out for lunch together and then shared some gourmet cupcakes with the girls later that evening. 
Anniversary lunch at Flat Top Grill


The next evening was the real celebration, Dave got tickets to The Second City comedy show.  If you don't know what The Second City is, it is the famous Chicago sketch comedy club that has spawned the likes of Tina Fey, Mike Myers, Steve Carrell, etc.  We'd never been to a show before so it was a treat for us and it was very funny.  Before the show we had dinner at very nice restaurant.  We both had delicious prime rib.  The dinner was so huge, we didn't even have dessert, but it was okay because we still had some cupcakes left over at home.

This anniversary was all smiles, but then Dave always make me smile :)